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Relationship Secret Codes by Nelly Ga...
Let’s talk about what a relationship actually is, since the majority of people blindly want, crave and chase the idea of having a relationship and yet, very few actually understand some essential points about what a relationship is…
A relationship is not a possession, like a stone or a purse or a car. A relationship is not a thing at all. A relationship is simply the interaction you’re having with that person as it’s happening and the general, overall tone of your interactions.
A relationship simply is.
Society doesn’t see relationships this way, for the most part. Our society tries to make relationships into a thing – a thing that can be worked on, fixed or broken. Lost or gained. Had or not had.
Relationships are living and experienced in-the-moment, like music.
A song is a song as it’s playing. If it’s sitting on your MP3 player and you’re not playing it, then it is simply data. You can say you have the song or own it, but saying you have a song on your iPod has nothing to do with your experience of the song as it’s playing.
I don’t care if you have a million songs on your iPod. If you’re not listening to the music, you’re not experiencing music.
Yes, I realize I’m speaking in metaphors, so let me tie this up: I don’t care if you have a relationship. I don’t care if you have a title like “boyfriend” or “husband” for your guy. The title is not the relationship. Your having of them is not your relationship – it is simply a thought in your head, completely irrelevant to the on-going music of your relationship.
So if the “music” of your relationship is a bitter, hateful ballad of pain and inner suffering… you need to change your tune, so to speak.
I Got It All But Still Single by Nell...
You are a successful young lady probably in your thirties, with a great relationship with God, great career,stable income,loving family,awesome friends but still single. If I told you that most likely you are the biggest reason why you are not married you might give me a high five on the face. But the truth is majority of you, you are sabotaging yourself. Self sabotage is when in your heart you want one thing, but your words and actions say the exact opposite. It is when you say with your mouth that you want to get married but with the same mouth you say that all men are dogs – or pigs. Self sabotage is when you want to move forward but you are still holding on to your past. Self sabotage is basically being your own prophet of doom or being the very hand that stops good things from happening to you. This book will help you as much as it can to see the reason you could still be single and what steps to take to change that status unless you have been called to celibacy. Otherwise everyone else has been called to marriage. God himself said it is not good for man to be alone.Genesis 2:18. It's a kind of book encouraging ladies to set themselves up to walk down the aisle and avoid all the excuses. Confronting the issue and dealing with it, it's the best you can do and save yourself lots of heartache. If your life is work, church and home you are limiting yourself to being found. And be cautious about your girlfriends who use scare tactics and manipulation to convince you that everyman in your life is a demon, just so you know, “misery loves company”.
